i am neurodivergent. i have adhd, autism, ptsd, bpd, anxiety and possibly a handful of other disorders and because of this i have an EXTREMELY bad memory. do not take it personally if i forget to respond. nine times out of ten, i just forgot to respond and i'm not ignoring you. bump your messages if needed.

please use tone tags with me if at all possible. i cannot read tone and i am prone to be easily offended, especially if it's a joke/light-hearted jab. i don't know you're not being serious.

my interests/fandoms and identities/kins mean everything to me. they bring me comfort and help me with my personal image. they can also affect my personality and behavior.

don't make sexual jokes towards me or about me. it makes me uncomfortable and overall i just really don't appreciate them unless you're my boyfriend.

don't flirt with me, i'm not interested and it makes me uncomfortable.

please be blunt with me and tell me off if i'm being too loud or too talkative. i am easily excited and tend to go from being super quiet to super loud if something i like is mentioned.

i block for comfort. if you're blocked it doesn't really mean you did anything wrong. if you're not on my blacklist feel free to reach out on an alt and ask why you're blocked if you want.

im socially awkward and anxious in public spaces. dm me directly if you want to have a conversation and avoid pinging me repeatedly.

i don't reach out or start conversations first unless we're really close. it's not that i don't like you i just have trouble approaching people.

i have typing quirks such as putting numbers instead of letters [like 4 instead of for/fore or 2 instead of to/too]. if this bothers you let me know. i cant garuntee that i can 100% avoid doing it but i will try my best.

i use dude/bro/dawg/man/boy/fella in a gender neutral sense. however, let me know if you don't like being called these and i will avoid them.

don't interact with me if you're under sixteen. personally, i prefer interacting with people my age, but i'm chill with people a couple years younger than me.

dont banter/playfully fight with me or bully me unless we're friends. i take things personally if i don't know you well enough to tell it's a joke.

i curse/swear constantly. it comes out so naturally i don't realize i do it sometimes. if this makes you uncomfortable please tell me.

i back away from conversations if i get uncomfortable. don't take it personally if i stop responding.

don't talk to me about serious topics unless we're close. i'm, unfortunately, easily triggered and prone to paranoia.

if you're lgbtqphobic, transphobic, homophobic, racist, sexist, ableist, zoo, pedo, etc. you're not welcome here.

trump supporters

anti-furry/anti-therian

ai "artists"/"writers"

if you have a problem with any of my fandoms and/or interests

if you have a problem with any of my friends/family

if you're on my blacklist

if you're going to attack me for someone being on my blacklist

if you're against xenogenders/neopronouns

if you're going to involve me in your drama or drama about creators. i don't care, i really dont.

if you have a problem with any of my identities or fandoms they come from. i can't help who becomes an identity and who doesnt.

if you have a problem with oc x canon. please leave.

if you're going to force religion on me.

if you don't like something i ship, or want to involve me in drama related to my ships.

if you're against self diagnosing. im self diagnosed after doing research and don't appreciate people who say it's not valid.

sharknipps/crowned_ryan

ragingbonker/tf2boy/tf2/slagging_off/jonerrr

ravencide

lots of holes/bumps [don't send me images containing these at all please]

lots of eyes [four is the most i can handle but even that's iffy]

hazbin hotel/helluva boss/vivziepop media [censor this or avoid talking about it around me]

self harm/suicide [censor please. i've had so many people not censor it to the point it genuinely stresses me out]

realistic images of guts/gore or blood [art is fine]

medical needles/syringes [avoid this please]